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Sunday, April 17, 2005
The Disadvantages of Dating A Babe
So you wish you had a trophy girlfriend, do you? Sure, there are many perks to dating an incredibly hot chick. You'd be the envy of all your friends; get the best tables in restaurants; never have to pay another speeding ticket again; get to cut to the front of lines; and more.
Best of all, you'd be having sex with a gorgeous woman - daily. Not to burst your bubble - well, maybe just a little bit - but there are also many disadvantages to dating a hot chick. My research for last week’s article opened a can of worms. Don't believe me? Read on to see what I mean.
Number 10
Other men will try to sleep with her
While you can hopefully trust that your friends won't try to get her in the sack, distant colleagues and casual acquaintances are another matter. Unlike your buddies, they don't owe you any loyalty, and may not respect the fact that your girlfriend is, well, your girlfriend.
Their primal instincts will take over and they won't be able to stop themselves from putting the moves on her when your back is turned. Actually, some of them may not even wait that long.
Number 9
You'll fight with guys you don't even know
If another man starts to put the moves on your woman, and you tell him to back off, and he doesn't, things may get ugly. Even if you were formerly a pacifist, and a gentleman, the male attention that your woman will constantly garner will have you learning Muay Thai in no time.
Number 8
You'll become jealous and possessive
So, you're not the jealous type? Think again; this woman will turn you green in no time. Even if she is 100% faithful, the fact that good-looking guys are always ogling her and talking to her will drive you nuts. Pretty soon, you may find yourself not wanting her to talk to anyone but you, which will eventually drive her nuts. Brace yourself, my friend.
Number 7
No one will notice you in her presence
When the two of you make an entrance, others may not even notice that you are there at all. Everyone's eyes will be on her, and you will inevitably fall into oblivion. If you aren't the insecure, attention-seeking type, this may not bother you. In fact, you'll just be proud that the object of everyone's attention is there with you.
On the other hand, if you always have to be the man of the hour, you may become resentful of the fact that she is constantly stealing the spotlight. Unless, of course, you are incredibly handsome, in which case, people will ogle both of you equally.
Number 6
People will assume that she wants you for your money
While men are trying to pick their tongues up from off the floor and women are looking for a flaw of hers to dwell on, they will invariably start to talk about her and the guy she's with (that's you, dude).
Unfortunately, the first thing they will likely assume is that you're loaded, which is why you've got a babe on your arm. It doesn't matter whether or not this is actually the case; people love to gossip.
Number 5
She can easily manipulate you
The next thing people will think is that she has you under her thumb (poor bastard). The worst part? Maybe she does. Think that that would never happen to you? Don't be so sure.
Do you find yourself obliging her every request just because she flashes that incredible smile of hers your way? Does she get away with everything? Watch out. Although it may be your pleasure now, if you are always the one doing things for her, and she never appreciates or reciprocates these actions, you will soon grow resentful of her.
Number 4
It will be harder to trust her
This leads nicely into my next point. And that is: it is harder to trust a hot chick than an average-looking chick because a hot chick can usually get whatever she desires, whether it's another man or another pair of shoes.
You may spend your time away from her wondering what she's up to, and whether or not she has your best interests at heart, or merely her own. You will wonder whether or not it is even possible for her to go out with her girlfriends and not pick up some guys along the way.
Number 3
You'll be insecure
While you are wondering whether or not she is trustworthy, that annoying little voice in your head that always gets you to second-guess yourself will emerge and tell you that your doubts are indeed well-founded and that she is out to do you harm.
You will start to call her constantly, even in the middle of the night, and show up wherever she is "just to say hi." No, she won't find it sweet; she'll find it sick.
Number 2
Her ego could be a problem
A really hot chick who doesn't know how hot she is, is hard to find. Chances are that your babe has been complimented on her looks so many times that by now, her head is a little bigger than most girls'. In fact, she may be downright egotistical.
She may honestly think that she is the prettiest, smartest, most talented, most fun woman in the room... all the time. Can you honestly deal with someone like that?
Number 1
You may stay with her for the wrong reasons
You may become blinded by her looks that you overlook (pun intended) any serious personality flaws that she may have. You will find yourself justifying the fact that she is an egomaniac, or unfaithful, for example, just so you can stay with her.
In writing this, I am by no means saying that you should date dogs exclusively. I am merely pointing out the most widely experienced drawbacks of dating a hot chick, so that when you do, you are aware of them and are thus less likely to fall prey to her charms. Sort of to balance last week’s article.
Find what you're looking for
If you remember to keep your sense of pride and self-esteem about you, and refuse to let her even think for a second that she can walk all over you, you will be able to enjoy your hottie without getting caught up in any of the unpleasant scenarios mentioned above. Now, go find yourself a hot date.
Best of all, you'd be having sex with a gorgeous woman - daily. Not to burst your bubble - well, maybe just a little bit - but there are also many disadvantages to dating a hot chick. My research for last week’s article opened a can of worms. Don't believe me? Read on to see what I mean.
Number 10
Other men will try to sleep with her
While you can hopefully trust that your friends won't try to get her in the sack, distant colleagues and casual acquaintances are another matter. Unlike your buddies, they don't owe you any loyalty, and may not respect the fact that your girlfriend is, well, your girlfriend.
Their primal instincts will take over and they won't be able to stop themselves from putting the moves on her when your back is turned. Actually, some of them may not even wait that long.
Number 9
You'll fight with guys you don't even know
If another man starts to put the moves on your woman, and you tell him to back off, and he doesn't, things may get ugly. Even if you were formerly a pacifist, and a gentleman, the male attention that your woman will constantly garner will have you learning Muay Thai in no time.
Number 8
You'll become jealous and possessive
So, you're not the jealous type? Think again; this woman will turn you green in no time. Even if she is 100% faithful, the fact that good-looking guys are always ogling her and talking to her will drive you nuts. Pretty soon, you may find yourself not wanting her to talk to anyone but you, which will eventually drive her nuts. Brace yourself, my friend.
Number 7
No one will notice you in her presence
When the two of you make an entrance, others may not even notice that you are there at all. Everyone's eyes will be on her, and you will inevitably fall into oblivion. If you aren't the insecure, attention-seeking type, this may not bother you. In fact, you'll just be proud that the object of everyone's attention is there with you.
On the other hand, if you always have to be the man of the hour, you may become resentful of the fact that she is constantly stealing the spotlight. Unless, of course, you are incredibly handsome, in which case, people will ogle both of you equally.
Number 6
People will assume that she wants you for your money
While men are trying to pick their tongues up from off the floor and women are looking for a flaw of hers to dwell on, they will invariably start to talk about her and the guy she's with (that's you, dude).
Unfortunately, the first thing they will likely assume is that you're loaded, which is why you've got a babe on your arm. It doesn't matter whether or not this is actually the case; people love to gossip.
Number 5
She can easily manipulate you
The next thing people will think is that she has you under her thumb (poor bastard). The worst part? Maybe she does. Think that that would never happen to you? Don't be so sure.
Do you find yourself obliging her every request just because she flashes that incredible smile of hers your way? Does she get away with everything? Watch out. Although it may be your pleasure now, if you are always the one doing things for her, and she never appreciates or reciprocates these actions, you will soon grow resentful of her.
Number 4
It will be harder to trust her
This leads nicely into my next point. And that is: it is harder to trust a hot chick than an average-looking chick because a hot chick can usually get whatever she desires, whether it's another man or another pair of shoes.
You may spend your time away from her wondering what she's up to, and whether or not she has your best interests at heart, or merely her own. You will wonder whether or not it is even possible for her to go out with her girlfriends and not pick up some guys along the way.
Number 3
You'll be insecure
While you are wondering whether or not she is trustworthy, that annoying little voice in your head that always gets you to second-guess yourself will emerge and tell you that your doubts are indeed well-founded and that she is out to do you harm.
You will start to call her constantly, even in the middle of the night, and show up wherever she is "just to say hi." No, she won't find it sweet; she'll find it sick.
Number 2
Her ego could be a problem
A really hot chick who doesn't know how hot she is, is hard to find. Chances are that your babe has been complimented on her looks so many times that by now, her head is a little bigger than most girls'. In fact, she may be downright egotistical.
She may honestly think that she is the prettiest, smartest, most talented, most fun woman in the room... all the time. Can you honestly deal with someone like that?
Number 1
You may stay with her for the wrong reasons
You may become blinded by her looks that you overlook (pun intended) any serious personality flaws that she may have. You will find yourself justifying the fact that she is an egomaniac, or unfaithful, for example, just so you can stay with her.
In writing this, I am by no means saying that you should date dogs exclusively. I am merely pointing out the most widely experienced drawbacks of dating a hot chick, so that when you do, you are aware of them and are thus less likely to fall prey to her charms. Sort of to balance last week’s article.
Find what you're looking for
If you remember to keep your sense of pride and self-esteem about you, and refuse to let her even think for a second that she can walk all over you, you will be able to enjoy your hottie without getting caught up in any of the unpleasant scenarios mentioned above. Now, go find yourself a hot date.
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Dude, I'm sick of your whining.
This is Malaysia. Pay the bloody bitch and she'll even take it in the ass. You cheap or what?
- bored mat salleh
This is Malaysia. Pay the bloody bitch and she'll even take it in the ass. You cheap or what?
- bored mat salleh
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: 2:16 AM last paragraph.. very true in order to survive relationships with hott chicks.. been there done that, dumped them before they dumped me.. treat them like dirt and they'll stick by you like glue while the great gossip about you stays on.. she'll even ask u to take her in the ass.. so why u pay Mat Salleh? How pathetic is that?.. Have to pay to get back door access is it?..
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